6 Ways To Be A Marrakech Insider By Amanda From MarocMama

Originally inspired by Amanda from MarocMama, updated with my own discoveries after over a decade in Morocco

Let me be honest with you – Marrakech can feel overwhelming at first. I still remember my early days in Morocco back in 2013, walking through the medina feeling completely bewildered (pun intended!). But here's what I've learned after all these years: this incredible city has layers that most visitors never discover. If your only experience is the chaos of Jemaa el-Fnaa, you're missing the soul of Marrakech.

The Reality About the Hustle

Yes, the touts are there. Yes, they can be persistent. But here's a little secret I've picked up – they're part of the city's rhythm, not necessarily its enemy. I once watched a savvy traveler completely change my perspective on this. Instead of getting frustrated, she engaged with the vendors with such genuine humor and lightness that even the most determined seller ended up laughing along. She treated it like a cultural dance rather than a battle, and guess what? She had an amazing time.

The key is confidence mixed with good humor. A simple "La, shukran" (No, thank you) with a smile goes a long way. And remember, many of these people are just trying to make a living – a little humanity goes both ways.

6 Ways to Discover the Real Marrakech

1. Escape to the Hidden Gardens

While everyone lines up for Jardin Majorelle (and yes, it's beautiful but pricey), I've discovered some absolute gems that locals actually visit. The Cyber Park near the train station is completely free and offers a peaceful retreat with Wi-Fi – perfect for digital nomads! Menara Gardens, with its ancient olive groves and reflecting pool, gives you that classic Moroccan garden experience without the tourist crowds.

My personal favorite? The little-known Agdal Gardens. They're only open certain days, but when they are, you'll feel like you've discovered a secret corner of paradise.

2. Embrace Moroccan Time

This might be the most important lesson I've learned living here. Morocco operates on what I lovingly call "flexible time," and fighting it will only lead to frustration. Instead of cramming five activities into one day, plan for two or three and leave space for spontaneity.

Some of my most magical Marrakech moments happened because I had time to accept that unexpected tea invitation, or pause to watch the sunset paint the Koutoubia Mosque pink. Trust me, slowing down isn't just advice – it's essential for falling in love with this city.

3. Master the Art of the Siesta

Between 1-4 PM, Marrakech practically shuts down, and there's pure wisdom in this. The heat is intense, and even locals retreat to cool spaces. This is your cue to find a rooftop terrace, enjoy a leisurely lunch, or yes – take that nap you've been denying yourself.

I've spent countless afternoons on rooftops, watching the city below slow to a gentle hum. It's during these quiet hours that you really start to understand Marrakech's rhythm.

4. Invest in a Local Guide (But Choose Wisely)

After years here, I still occasionally hire guides when I want to explore something specific. The difference between a good guide and a mediocre one is night and day. Look for guides who are passionate about sharing culture, not just rushing you through photo ops.

A great guide will show you the difference between tourist tagines and the real deal, explain the significance of the tadelakt walls, and maybe even introduce you to their favorite tea spot. Ask your riad for recommendations – they usually know the gems.

5. Eat Where the Magic Happens

Forget the fancy restaurants with international menus and sky-high prices. The best Moroccan food often comes from the most unassuming places. See a crowd of locals around a small stall? That's your dinner destination.

Some of my most memorable meals have cost less than 20 dirhams. The mechoui (roasted lamb) near Bab Aghmat, the fresh orange juice at any medina stall, or the morning msemen from street vendors – these are the flavors that will stay with you long after you leave.

And speaking of authentic food experiences – I took Amanda's Food Tour and absolutely loved it! It was such a fantastic way to discover hidden food gems and understand the stories behind the dishes. You can read more about my experience here.

Pro tip: If you see Moroccan families eating somewhere, the food is not only delicious but safe.

6. Learn Through Your Hands

Taking a cooking class isn't just about learning to make tagine – it's cultural immersion at its finest. You'll understand why certain spices are paired together, learn about Moroccan hospitality traditions, and gain insights into family life that no guidebook can provide.

I love recommending cooking classes because they give you something practical to take home. The Amal Women's Training Center and Restaurant is one of my favorite places for beginners – it's a wonderful organization that empowers women while serving incredible food. For those wanting a more intimate or advanced experience, there are also private cooking schools throughout the city.

Every time you recreate that chicken and olive tagine in your own kitchen, you'll be transported back to Marrakech.

The Real Secret to Marrakech

Here's what I wish someone had told me on my first visit: Marrakech isn't a city you conquer – it's a city you surrender to. The moment you stop trying to control every experience and start allowing the city to unfold around you, that's when the magic happens.

Yes, it's chaotic. Yes, it's intense. But it's also incredibly alive in a way that few cities are. Every corner has a story, every interaction teaches you something, and every sunset over the Atlas Mountains reminds you why this place captures hearts.

Whether you're here for three days or three years (like me!), approach Marrakech with curiosity rather than expectation. Let yourself get a little lost, engage with the experience, and remember – being bewildered isn't always a bad thing. Sometimes it's exactly where the adventure begins.

What's your Marrakech story? I'd love to hear about your discoveries in this incredible city – drop me a comment below!